James 4 says friendship with the world is disloyalty to God. I make myself an enemy of His. He is passionately jealous for my spirit to be intertwined in intimacy with His heart and Spirit. This is what I was created for. When I desire friendship with the world or steal the affections of the Bride, I am really in adultery. I am trying to satisfy my real needs for intimacy outside of intimacy and loyalty with God.