We Prefer
Men prefer darkness rather than light
We prefer force rather than compassion
We prefer confrontation rather than humility
We prefer argument rather than heart work
We prefer to be right rather than to care
We prefer tradition rather than transformation
We prefer to inflict pain rather than to admit pain
We prefer fear rather than love
We prefer to blame rather than to accept responsibility
We prefer to be nice than to be honest
We prefer fake perfection rather than vulnerability
We prefer preaching rather than careful searching
We prefer pleasure rather than deep satisfaction
We prefer to mask our pain rather than face it honestly in community
We prefer a pretend religion rather than real spirituality
We prefer a God who reflects our own image rather than a God who cannot be manipulated
We prefer an angry, wrathful God rather than an intense, passionate lover God
We prefer to have a list for right and wrong rather than wrestle through issues of a committed relationship
We prefer truth rather than spirit
We prefer spirit rather than truth
We prefer simplistic, prepackaged doctrines rather than continuous openness to growth
We prefer cultural exclusiveness rather than joyful unity in the full body of Christ
We prefer minimal growth rather than challenging exploration of our potential
Men prefer darkness rather than light